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active physically and mentally.
here is a short story that has some literary (Homer) reference and tells a good deal about me:
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Getting to Ithaca

It had taken him many years and much effort to get this far. After the battles and monsters and sorceresses, after the long years, Ithaca was now just over the horizon. He couldn’t see it, but he could smell it in the winds. If they would blow favorably he could be home soon. There was yet one more danger in his way – the Scourge Goddess.

Not visible like Scylla and Charibdis, but as captivating as any Siren, he can see her only in the haunted eyes of those men who have had to step into the dark to find something. He can see her sometimes when he looks in the mirror and sees the shadow in his eyes.

Haunted by a longing for something, they know not exactly what, and feel that She, the Scourge Goddess, will give them an answer or at least point them on the way. Sometimes She does, sometimes not; there is always a cost. Strong men can bear this cost, the weak falter and fall.

Tie yourself to the mast, quickly, because She comes close now.

Better yet, have Her tie you to the mast so that you have volunteered for the inevitable scourging and don’t have to expend limited energies holding yourself in place to show you can take it.
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end of story, hope you liked it.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasymeeting in a private place where we both can be free, after we've gotten to know one another
Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?almost every day

Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?have not started yet
How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:not something I'm interested in, but parks on nice days are good.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:in a classroom

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureArms
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job Titleconsultant

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchan open-minded, mentally awake woman who is willing to talk openly with me about herself
Our first dateconversation to get to know one another

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, CBT (cock & ball torture), Electro torture, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Power exchange
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasthat requires more thought than I have time for right now

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Don't like going out

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Experimentation
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Messing with the Mind
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings
Ideal session:not a lot of clothes on
Ultimate femdom fantasy:something where both partners have a good time