I'm 51, and looking for spanking only. I'm not interested in sex in any way. I need consequences for some self discipline, leading to guilt, issues I am having and feel spanking would be an effective means of correction. I haven't been spanked since I was a teenager, so this is new to me. I think I could handle a hairbrush spanking or paddling. I don't thing I could tolerate anything more than that. Also, I am pretty terrified of the belt... really bad experience there with my step father, so I don't want to go down that road.