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Dominant Male

Let's see... I was born in the mid-60s, I've got two young kids whom I'm ridiculously committed to. I'm married to a woman who is good with me pursuing this lifelong passion of mine - and yes, if we get to that point, you and she will speak. I'm a genuinely kind, gentle person...except that I've got this desire, this need to spank a woman, not playfully... not a spanking from an R-rated movie, but to give a woman a real spanking.

I hate how one-dimensional these things become, but it's not like you're here to read about my love of Pat Metheny or John McLaughlin, right? Or how I wish I'd read the Theory of Communicative Action, but it was just too fucking onerous to get through? No, you're here to read about my love of spanking, my long fascination with it, how the thought of having a woman over my knee, naked, running my hands over her body, taking ownership of it even before the first slap... that sense of you needing this, but not wanting it... how it turns you on but you don't like it... Yeah, that.

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyOk, first off... it's not really an "affair" because that word implies "cheating" or "sneaking."

My wife's sex drive is gone. She just doesn't want that anymore, not with me, not with anyone. Which is fine, by itself. But she and I both know that I still have needs. Hence me posting here.
Does your partner know?Yes
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Once or twice a month

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Not into public sex. My thinking is that sex should be between whomever's involved, not random strangers walking down the street.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Ha! The bed?

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildThick
Height178 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureHands
Body ArtNone
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenTwo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleIT

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Wit, Thoughtfulness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyHair pulling, Physical humiliation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNever tried it

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyYou are still over my knee after having been spanked.

I whisper in your ear, "Is this how adult women are usually found?"

You know two things, you know that a) your spanking isn't over, and b) exactly where this is going.

I spank you... "I said, 'is this how adult women are usually found?' "

You respond now, "No sir. It's not."

"And... who is usually found in this position?"

"Girls, sir."

"And these girls, are they good little girls or are they naughty?"

"Naughty, sir"

"Naughty what?"

"Naughty... little girls."

"And now that you're over my knee like this, what would you say that makes you?"

"A... naughty little girl"

"And what happens to naughty little girls?"

Pause

I spank you again...

"And what, exactly, happens to naughty... little... girls?"

No pause now... "They get spanked."

"Yes... yes, they do."

And your spanking commences again, as you knew it would.
Fantasy locationDark alley, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, My office, Public bathroom

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Tears
Pain level:Light Marks