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Seeking Play Partner in STL or Online

spankingmymuses is my fetlife name.

I've been into spanking for as long as I can remember. I've found that a well-spanked bottom is a thing of beauty--a radiant composition of line, texture, color, and warmth.

A good hard spanking, for a lady who truly wants it, needs it, deserves it, desires it on the deepest levels, and knows that I'm completing the equation for her as she is for me--that is what I seek. I've met many such women and intend to meet many more, at least until I meet the one that makes me stop looking.

My profession puts me very much in the public eye, so discretion is necessary. I won't be posting any pictures of myself for now, but I am more than happy to share photos after some trust has been built.

Experienced in all forms and degrees of the spanking arts--sensual, maintenance, therapeutic, disciplinary--and fond of blindfolding, corner time, vibe/Hitachi play, flogging, assignments, etc. Musician's hands, meaning good impact control and strong sense of style and rhythm.

My most recent partner is moving so I am looking for a fresh bottom to spank.

Online is not out of the question. I have made that work and in fact, one of the most powerfully erotic D/s relationships I've had to date was with someone 2000 miles away. If the chemistry is right, distance doesn't matter.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildFit
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBald
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureHands
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleRed Bottom Maker

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI like good girls who dream of being punished for such thoughts. I like girls who fantasize about spanking and blush at simply hearing the word "spanking." I like clever, playful girls who bring out my protective instincts as well as my urge to spank, and I prize sweetness, honestly, and loyalty.
Our first dateCoffee or lunch at the public place of your choosing, with respectful observation of safe calls or other safety measures you want to employ. If that goes well, we can set up a play date. But before any of that happens, I will need to be convinced of your sincerity and discretion.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor